On Luke's first day of preschool, I wrote a note and put it in his lunch bag. Feeling sad that unlike some kids, he'd have to stay four hours after preschool, I wrote a note on an index card telling him how I loved him and how I couldn't wait to hear all about his big day.
He can't read, of course. I was worried that he'd be too shy to ask someone to read it for him, but I was wrong. In the car that afternoon, he told me that he asked his teacher to read it and she did.
I kept sending him notes, but somedays, I'd be in a rush and forget. Somedays I'd be too tired at the end of the night to even think about it. One day, I picked him up early after a doctor's appointment and his extended care teacher told me how the notes I send are so sweet. She said every day after washing his hands, he retrieves his lunch bag and very shyly brings the note to her. She told me she reads it to him and he smiles. She said often times, he puts it in his pocket, then removes it during quiet time and looks at it. Once, she said, he kissed it and laid it next to his head. She said, "You can tell he really loves you."
I haven't missed a note since then. The other night, I asked Luke what he wanted me to pack in his lunch. He said, "A turkey and cheese sandwich, carrot sticks, and a note."
Always, buddy.
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Oh, my heart.
ReplyDeleteHow sweet, you are such a good mama!
ReplyDeleteawww how sweet!
ReplyDeleteOh, that made me tear up! How precious!
ReplyDeleteTotally crying over this one.
ReplyDeleteSteph
<3 So incredibly sweet!
ReplyDeleteYou're such an amazing mother. Luke and Tommy are lucky to be able to call you mom.
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's just the hormones making me cry, mama. I'm a blubbery mess. Love you and love Luke.
ReplyDeleteLove! Just love.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the tears, jerk. :) so very sweet of both of you
ReplyDeleteawww mah gaaaahhhhd....
ReplyDeleteGood job mama!
ReplyDeleteI'm about to give birth to my first child- a son! I never pictured myself as the mama of a boy, but I am, and I'm so excited...but I feel even less like I "know what I'm doing" than I think I would with a girl.
ReplyDeleteThat's why I'm so grateful for your candid posts about raising your two beautiful boys.
And this post?
Just melts my heart into a puddle.
I shall not forgive you for this one.
ReplyDeleteOh man Erin. The tears won't stop! This is the sweetest thing. He'll treasure these notes forever.
ReplyDeleteThat is absolutely precious!
ReplyDeleteThis gave me goosebumps - so sweet.
ReplyDeleteoh, how sweet! Our preschool has a bin of cut out paper (some are hearts, or flowers, or just random shapes) that are there for "love notes". From what I understand, they read them to the kids as they settle down for naptime. They have become so important to my little one too!
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness. This is too much for my 39+ weeks pregnant hormonal self!!
ReplyDeleteThat is one blessed little boy. His mother's heart is so good.
ReplyDeletexo
Oh my heart Erin. What a sweet sweet boy.
ReplyDeleteSOB
ReplyDeleteOh the preciousness!! That makes me so teary. What a sweet boy you have. And how sweet of you to send the notes.
ReplyDeletelove it! I tuck random surprise notes in lunches too - my favorites are silly jokes. I'm going to do this tomorrow, thanks for the reminder.
ReplyDeleteYou do not know me, but I wanted to leave a comment. This post brings a smile to my heart.:) You are such a good mom and you have a beautiful family.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm crying, thanks. ((PUNCH))
ReplyDelete"tears"...oh, how special!
ReplyDeleteThat is so so so sweet! I love that he kissed it.
ReplyDeleteSo, so sweet!! Love that Luke enjoys reading the note every day & keeps it close by.
ReplyDeleteAre you trying to turn me into a snotty, blubbering mess this morning?? Well, it's working. ;) So sweet. You inspire me. :)
ReplyDeleteThat is the sweetest thing EVER and makes me rethink stopping the little notes in my kid's lunchboxes.
ReplyDeleteLoved this!
ReplyDeleteOh my heart (and perhaps my hormones), I'm teary.
ReplyDeleteThis is lovely, and a perfect reminder to love always and love BIG and- I guess that's it?
Love this!
OH my goodness, so very sweet. I can only imagine how much your heart swelled when she told you that. :)
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