Friday, June 25, 2010

.Five.

In five years, I've changed from the woman who said, "I do" on that beautiful June day. I remember on our honeymoon, talking about going back on our five year anniversary. The musings of a young 20-something with no children.

Today, instead, we're going to Chicago for sushi. Nothing big, but somehow perfect. We've never had a wedding anniversary where I haven't been pregnant or nursing (hey, it's been a busy five years), so we've never really been able to get away. But that's okay. We've been working on building a family, based on the vows we took five years ago.

We used to slow dance in the kitchen. Now we dance fast, with two children. We used to surprise each other with little treats. Now we come back from the store with coloring books or bouncy balls. We used to see new movies in the theatre. Now we wait until they hit Netflix. We used to go out for sushi every Friday night. Now we look for restaurants with crayons and outdoor seating. We used to sleep in Saturday mornings. Now we're woken up early and head to the park or the farmer's market.

Life has changed so much, but I wouldn't have it any other way. Today I gave Shane a card that said, "Grow old with me. The best is yet to be." With all the best we've already received, I can't help but believe that the card is true.

22 comments:

Jen@Scrapingirl said...

Happy Anniversary!! And, I agree wiith everything you said. I've been married for 12.5 years and it's a wild ride, but I couldn't ask for anything better. When we have dte nights we end up buying the kids something, or talking about the kids, or saying "Boy, they would love this place." That's our life and we LOVE it!!

Krista said...

Congratulations. Enjoy eachother today, and forever!

Helen said...

Happy Anniversary! My husband and I are celebrating our 6th today :)

Brianna said...

Happy Anniversary!!! Marriage is amazing, isn't it? We just had our 5th last month. Hope your date is fun and romantic. :)

Bri

Maria said...

Happy anniversary! We've been married for 7 1/2 years, and I agree, the best is yet to come!

I love reading your blog -- I've given you an award over at www.darowefamily.blogspot.com. Have a great day!

Megan said...

Happy, happy anniversary, with many more to come, Erin. You both deserve it!

Bacardi Mama said...

Happy Anniversary. It sounds like you have it pretty well figured out. Good for you. Enjoy your sushi. Maybe we'll see each other at the market tomorrow.

Cameron said...

Happy Anniversary!

Vanessa said...

We have the same anniversary! We got married 6 years ago today! :)
Hope yours is a good one!

Nicole said...

congrats to you both on all your accomplishments!

Sarah said...

Happy, Happy Anniversary! Your marriage sounds (reads?) so very rich and beautiful. Congratulations!

Elaine A. said...

Yes, the kiddos change our priorities, don't they? But of course it's ALL good... :)

Happy Anniversary to you two! Hope it's a great one.

Erin said...

Happy Anniversary! We celebrated 5 in May. :)

Julie Vision Designs said...

AWWWWW! I can't believe it has been 5 years....somehow it seems like so much longer since I got my first ever GPS to work just in time to get to your rehearsal dinner. :-P And in other ways it seems like no time at all. CONGRATS! I love you two (and your little two) SO MUCH!

PS- skip the tuna on your sushi run: http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/27/magazine/27Tuna-t.html

Life with Kaishon said...

Happy anniversary.
This was very, very sweet.

Melissa said...

Congratulation! Happy Anniversary! Have a great day!

Kaycee said...

Lovely post.

Congratulations!

Saj said...

Happy anniversary! We just celebrated our ninth, and we are half-jokingly, half-seriously talking about a tenth anniversary get-away for next year. Know what we'll probably be doing? Heading to the zoo, where we had our reception, like we do every year, followed by dinner at a restaurant with crayons and outdoor seating! The best!

BTW, that quote from the card is a line from a song sung at my wedding! So beautiful!

Stillmary said...

Such a beautiful, loving post. You are so wise and (I've said it before) so centered.Your comparisons between 'used to be' and now are touching and true. And the card you gave Shane? Perfect!
Happy Anniversary!

ZDub said...

Happy Anniversary! Ours was the 23rd and we had sushi on Saturday. WITH NO KIDS.

I wish every day was my anniversary.

xo-Z

~Mendie~ said...

What a perfect card...wishing you many more years together!

Beth at I Should Be Folding Laundry said...

When he read "grow old with me" did he reply with "DONE." ?

No? That's good.

Seriously, Happy Happy Anniversary! I hope it was a glorious weekend celebrating not just you two but the beautiful family you have created! Love you.